Arguments on both side make sense. But this is one of the only "site cheated me" posts where I seem to be thinking OP is legit. The disconnect problems could be a reason. Sending the HH (complete) should be standard IMO since it is on many other sites. (Although it is not on many as well :-( ) I have received a large HH from stars after data loss.
Its a strange situation. One the one hand, if a site truly believes cheating of any kind happened, it is standard on many that you are frozen, lose your money in your account (TOS) BUT there should be a way to protect yourself as well in the case that the site is wrong.
I dont play BO. Anyone know the HH situation? Is it like
bodog where you just dont get em at all? And in the case of them not wanting to sent the suspicious
hands to OP for reasons stated earlier ITT, isnt there some kind of review bourd - online poker regulatory board or whatever - where a case like this can be looked at in detail? I mean 65k... Seems to warrant OP getting a fair shake at defending his side and not just saying "yea you think I cheated, keep my money"
One more thing:
OP, you are a high stakes player so any chance of you revealing who you are, if you are a respected clean slate player on all your other sites, it will really make your story solid.. IDK if you wanna do this, just a thought....