Hahaha yeah I'm trying this new thing where if I go into a thread I have to comment on at least one hand. It helps force me to actually post, and usually once I post on one I get engaged and want to look at more.
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Poker's been hit or miss lately. Haven't played much online - none on Bovada, and not many hands in private game. Down a lot my last few sessions there. Some bad variance, but also just need to buckle down, be patient, and keep value betting. A lot of my recent mistakes have involved
bluff lines that people in this game just won't respect because they like calling or don't understand what I'm representing.
Live has gone a bit better. My past few sessions haven't been massive wins or anything, but I've just felt very in my element. I enjoy live more, and I'm also getting better at not sacrificing good play for the enjoyment. It's always a balance, but I feel like I'm able to incorporate table talk more easily into the game, and just starting conversations with people and stuff.
In a similar vein, I hosted my second home game. With my poker chips newly labeled and a cash game on the horizon, I was pretty excited. Not many of the original crowd were interested in cash games, so I had to spread the word a little further. Still mostly coworkers, but I also welcomed people bringing friends with them.
It ended up being a massive success. A total of 14 guys came through, with a peak of 11 people playing on 2 - that's right, 2 - tables. While my secondary side table wasn't as great as my poker table, it still allowed more action, which was nice for the people who would have otherwise had to wait. I only have 12 chairs in my house currently, so if I want to do that regularly and have more than 12 play I'm going to have to stock up. Not a problem I was expecting to have, but I think that's a relatively good thing.
As for the people, it was a very different mix from the first time. Much more like a casino game than a home game, though still more friendly and conversational. Most of the people who came the first time busted within the first couple hours. A few only bought in for $40 or $50 (it was a 1/1 game, buyin of 40-100), but a couple bought in for the full $100. I ended up spotting one guy $100 after he had busted what he brought. Not something I want to turn into a habit, but with him I wasn't worried, and it was that or send him to a distant ATM.
I frankly didn't pay that much attention to how people played, except at a high level. I know a couple players were halfway decent, but most were at the level of bad semi-reg or semi-nit in a casino game. I was mostly focused on the hosting part of things though.
I dumped over 2 buyins in the first couple hours, mostly in cooler situations. AA < K7s AIOTF on K72 two tone in a way, massive, 3way 3b pot (45bb in the pot on the flop), TPTK running into two pair, etc. But I didn't get tilted at all. For one thing, it's actually less money than I'm used to playing for. A bit bad, in that it's easier to spew because I don't care about the money, but I also felt it freed me to make moves when I otherwise would have been worried, and hero call with more confidence when I thought I was right.
On top of my own perceived success, it seemed everyone had a great time and thought the game was run well. For one thing, I don't think I'll ever get tired of seeing people catch sight of my poker table for the first time. It's always either "wow," "nice," or just a slight gasp at the setup. It might be a little egotistical, but it feels really good, since I put a lot of time and energy into getting everything set up just right.
A lot of the people who came also play in other home games (most are tournaments only, or tournaments with side cash games), and 3 of the reggy types said it was the best-run home game they'd been to in a very long time. I definitely have private NYC games to thank for that, as a lot of my hosting style I learned from going to other games.
On top of the kind words, I also made $31 in tips lol. It was a bit of a surprise to me, though maybe it shouldn't have been. I did provide some snacks and soda, but given that only 3 people tipped me ($5, $10, $16), I was a little surprised I basically broke even on the snacks. I'm hoping to bring those people's friends around - maybe they have the same tipping mindset.
Tbf the guy who tipped $16 cashed out $386 from an $80 buyin, so I doubt he'll be that generous when he was a breakeven night.
In terms of my own game, I did manage to turn the night around with some well-timed reverse coolers and some solid, patient play. I don't know exactly how much I made. I was in for $340 and cashed out somewhere between $450 and $500 - pretty good given how the night started.
I probably won't be hosting again until after the holidays since a lot of people will be gone, but I'm looking forward to making this a regular thing. I know that a number of the players will be back for sure, and several of them will absolutely be telling their other home game-playing friends to come over. I think that I'll be able to host a weekly or bi-weekly game within a few months.
All in all, feeling good about poker, and the varied perspective I'm able to have for it now.