All life is a struggle. There are two types of people: strong and weak. If a person has had a failure in life, a weak person can start drinking alcohol, for example, resign himself or be indifferent as you wrote above. A strong person will sit down alone with himself, think about why he had this failure and start to fight it. I think that there are very few successful people in this life (for example, athletes, businessmen, etc.) who have achieved success on the first try. Most of them have gone through many failures and difficulties, but those who did not give up, continued to fight and work on themselves, they achieved success. There is a very good expression "The one who has defeated himself wins in this life." Everything in this life depends on us, no matter what difficult circumstances are around us, we must continue to fight and only in this case there is a chance to succeed.