Ever Felt Embarrassed After a Bluff Goes Wrong? Here's My Story...

[wazir]

Hey everyone,

I just wanted to share one of those classic moments where a bluff backfires — and ask if you've ever experienced something similar.

I was holding A-K offsuit on the button, and the flop came down 2-2-2. I figured this was a perfect spot for a continuation bet, assuming my opponent probably missed the board. I made a decent-sized bet, and to my surprise, he shoved 6K on top.

After thinking for a while, I decided to call all-in, hoping he was trying to push me off with overcards or maybe a weak pocket pair.

But nope… he turned over 4-2.

I was stunned. I never expected he’d have a 4 in his hand, let alone hit trips like that with a junky combo. I felt super embarrassed — not just for misreading the situation, but also for trying to bluff in such a strange spot.

It made me realize how unpredictable poker can be, and how important it is to consider the types of hands weaker players might actually call preflop with.

Have you ever had a bluff that went so wrong, it made you feel ashamed or just totally surprised?
How do you bounce back mentally after a moment like that

 

[dannystanks]

You just need to study and find good spots to bluff. Never feel embarrassed by a bluff that doesn’t work. When you figure out the best spots for bluffing you will realize that your bluffs don’t need to work 100% of the time to be profitable.
You left some things out of your hand history. If the person was in the BB they will call with anything. It really depends on how big your raise was, your image, stack sizes, lots of factors.

 

[Tammy]

There's a saying that says if you don't get caught in a bluff sometimes, you're not bluffing enough! But of course it's human nature to feel embarrassed - I wouldn't have in this situation, but there were times when I didn't even have decent hole cards and got caught, when I thought my opponent had nothing.

I am more curious how the preflop betting in this hand went - was there raises and calls? Or limping, and he just happened to be in the BB? If he called preflop raises with that hand, well, you definitely have nothing to be embarrassed about!

 

[pirateglenn]

Hey everyone,

I just wanted to share one of those classic moments where a bluff backfires — and ask if you've ever experienced something similar.

I was holding A-K offsuit on the button, and the flop came down 2-2-2. I figured this was a perfect spot for a continuation bet, assuming my opponent probably missed the board. I made a decent-sized bet, and to my surprise, he shoved 6K on top.

After thinking for a while, I decided to call all-in, hoping he was trying to push me off with overcards or maybe a weak pocket pair.

But nope… he turned over 4-2.

I was stunned. I never expected he’d have a 4 in his hand, let alone hit trips like that with a junky combo. I felt super embarrassed — not just for misreading the situation, but also for trying to bluff in such a strange spot.

It made me realize how unpredictable poker can be, and how important it is to consider the types of hands weaker players might actually call preflop with.

Have you ever had a bluff that went so wrong, it made you feel ashamed or just totally surprised?
How do you bounce back mentally after a moment like that

Yep - i got caught well and truly with my pants down with a bluff that didn't just go sideways, it went every worse way possible after pot committing myself a long time ago as i was learning - boy it stung but it added credence to having that table image if you are going to try such things. Lesson learnt the hard way in a cash game!

 

[dorsk]

Getting caught in a bluff is a part of the game. Instead of being embarrassed a busted bluff can be used in future hands. It makes you more unpredictable and it doesn’t necessarily deflates your table image. The player who tries to play every hand perfectly is rarely a winning player.

 

[pentazepam]

It was not the bluffing but the calling that was the problem in this case.

And if you bet with AK on a 222 board HU, it can be a value bet as much as a bluff if you bet small.

Why bet big when the opponent doesn't fold any better hands?

If you get called on this flop, you have to continue to rep a high pocket pair and bluff the turn (and maybe river) to get some lower pocket pairs to fold or give up.

I'm not a big fan of "bluffing" one barrel with such a good hand as AK on a super "all or nothing board". Unless you go all the way as you would with AA and KK. But I would rather balance my range with a worse Ax.

 

[istbno]

Feeling embarrassed after a bluff goes wrong is completely normal, especially if you’re still developing your confidence at the table. Bluffing is a crucial part of poker strategy, and even the best players get caught sometimes—it’s part of the game. The key is to detach your emotions from the outcome and focus on whether your decision was sound based on the information you had. If it was, then it was a good bluff, regardless of the result. Use it as a learning experience, keep your composure, and remember: poker is about the long game, and a failed bluff doesn’t define you as a player.

 

[wazir]

Good

It was not the bluffing but the calling that was the problem in this case.

And if you bet with AK on a 222 board HU, it can be a value bet as much as a bluff if you bet small.

Why bet big when the opponent doesn't fold any better hands?

If you get called on this flop, you have to continue to rep a high pocket pair and bluff the turn (and maybe river) to get some lower pocket pairs to fold or give up.

I'm not a big fan of "bluffing" one barrel with such a good hand as AK on a super "all or nothing board". Unless you go all the way as you would with AA and KK. But I would rather balance my range with a worse Ax.

Good point u r right
Butb At that moment, it didn’t even cross my mind. But I’ll definitely try this approach in the next similar situation.
Thanks for nice suggestion.

 

[andron205]

this is completely normal

 

[Cooking]

That happens, but if you think it was the right play for the moment then I would not worry about it. Of course it's never nice when you are caught bluffing, specially on live poker, online it really don't matter because nobody knows who you are.

 

[ironduke11]

what you describe is not necessarily a bluff,
you are holding a strong hand and you c-bet a board that should put off many hands....pocketpairs and the case 2 will naturally continue or reraise....
im sure that at showdown no one really disparaged your hand.

if you had raised your opponents initial bet then you would be bluffing or semibluffing in this case.

 

[makudonarudo]

i mean, it was very likely he had at least a pocket pair for a boat

 

[tagece]

It happens. Sometimes you think the villain will never have the cards, but he called with a junk hand and hit it.
And sometimes is just a calling station paying with a third pair when you don't have nothing. That's why this game is fun.

 

[SPANKYSN]

I am going to assume you were playing live at a casino poker room...I don't think you would be embarrassed, blushing with your ears turning red if you were at home on your couch...that being said, if you did not lose your entire stack and could continue playing, your table reputation is that of a loose cannon...use it to claw back some chips...it's like a baseball pitcher who throws over 100 mph...occasionally, and with calculated intent the pitcher will airmail a fastball well over the batter's head...batters usually respond by being far less aggressive (and strike out more often).

 

[dimon4ik89]

In your situation, you need to analyze the entire hand from start to finish in order to understand why this situation happened. First, what raise did you give preflop? Second, what position was your opponent in that he entered the game with such a trash hand. If, for example, you made a minimum raise and your opponent was on the big blind, then there is nothing strange in this situation. And the second point: even if he had a weak pocket pair, then on the flop he already had a full house, and you only needed 6 outs from the deck to win this hand. In this situation, I think it would be right to make a test minimum bet, and when your opponent raised your bet, you just needed to fold. But again, here it was necessary to know how your opponent plays in order to make the right decision. Yes, of course, I had similar situations, I can't say that I felt awkward, but there were moments when I was surprised that my opponents responded to my preflop raise with about the same hand as your opponent, and at the same time they were in early or middle position, and hit the flop about the same as your opponent. And when I bluffed on the flop and ended up losing this hand, I was surprised how this could even happen). But these are all game moments, the main thing is to draw the right conclusions and continue playing.

 

[Skot_Gy]

Yes it is a bit embarassing, but its part of the game so you move on and concentrate

 

[s0ftdumps]

You just need to study and find good spots to bluff. Never feel embarrassed by a bluff that doesn’t work. When you figure out the best spots for bluffing you will realize that your bluffs don’t need to work 100% of the time to be profitable.
You left some things out of your hand history. If the person was in the BB they will call with anything. It really depends on how big your raise was, your image, stack sizes, lots of factors.

I’m still learning how to identify +EV bluff spots, and it helps to hear that the occasional failed bluff isn’t a big deal if the spot was right.

You’re right about missing some details — sorry about that. The villain was in the BB, and I raised 3x from the CO. Stack sizes were around 50bb effective. I’ve been pretty active at the table, so maybe that played into the call too.

 

[Alex Houngan]

Yeah, I’ve definitely had my share of bluffs that went horribly wrong—it’s part of the game. One time I tried to represent a flush on the river, only to get snap-called by someone holding bottom pair. Moments like that sting, but they’re also great learning opportunities. I try to laugh it off, review the hand later, and remind myself that even the best players make bold moves that don’t always work out.

 

[tchao1994]

Countless times kkkk

 

[G0930]

Sure , I think it's only natural to feel that way sometimes ^^

 

[vriza]

It happens to me several times. I bluff when enemy have nuts